When you get married ( stand before GOD and whoever else is there on holy ground ) and make a covenant, you move from a whatever mindset and a we’ll see state of mind to a “ HANDCUFFS AND ISLANDS “ mindset. You will never leave your wingman. Your wingman ( another PILOT, (your spouse is a pilot too) who is positioned slightly behind, but barely, who is right beside ) they are there for protection, EZER KENEGDO!! You move to a belief that we will make this work, we have no other choice. We are on an a desert island. We are handcuffed together and not able to leave each other. With that mindset you’ll stay married and make it work. That’s what GOD intended.